May 7th -- Nashville, TN PDF Print E-mail
I sang in my Son’s Kindergarten class today. As I was driving to his school I was reminded of when MY Dad came to my Kindergarten class and sang many years ago. Well, about thirty years ago, to be exact. Now, not many people believe me when I say this, but I can remember my 1st year of being alive! I pride myself on having a stellar memory. I remember, my teacher’s name was Mrs. Jones and it was at Millwood Elementary on the NE side of Oklahoma City, OK. I remember greatly anticipating my Dad coming to my school for show and tell and literally bursting at the seams. I remember hearing a clip clop, similar to what a Clydesdale horse might sound like, coming down the hallway of my school. I knew what my Dad’s boots sounded like so I knew it was him. That really made the butterflies swirl! I didn’t know then, but I learned as I got older, what kind of shoes my Dad was wearing. They were platform shoes. The clip clop sound was because one of the heels had come out. Pretty funny…

dad_2_2As he walked into my classroom I remember heat rising in my chest, so excited and so proud that THAT was my Dad! He was brilliant looking to me! With long shoulder length blond hair, a light handlebar mustache, a long sleeved collared shirt, and bellbottoms he stood tall like a super hero to me; a rock star super hero! Wow, just recapping all of this is really fun to think about. He had a black Fender Stratocaster guitar on his shoulder and a Peavey amplifier in his right hand. He stood at the front of the classroom where the chalkboard was. He sat his amp down, preceded to plug it in when I rushed to be by his side. From the time he walked in to the time he left I never left his side. I’d never stood so tall as when I stood next to him that day. I still see the classroom exactly the way it was. He fired up his amp and plugged his guitar in and started playing. He played “Under The Double Eagle” and we all clapped along. I watched the other kids gaze in amazement because this, I’m sure, was not something they had seen before. Then he played and sang “Ride Like The Wind,” by Christopher Cross. I’ll never forget that. To this day, every time I hear that song on the radio, that’s exactly where my mind goes…He played and sang on and this 5-year-old little boy became the envy of everyone in his class. My last memory of this day was walking to his car with him helping him carry his gear. I remember him encouraging me and asking me, “Why didn’t you sing the answer part on “Ride Like The Wind?” (The infamous Michael McDonald line) I remember wanting to sing but being too shy. He gave me a big hug, loaded his stuff up and walked me back to my class. He said he loved me and then said goodbye to my teacher and my class and then my larger than life Dad left. That is my favorite memory of my Dad. It never goes away…

When I shared this same story with my Son’s class I fought a lump in my throat as the memories all came rushing back. Isn’t it amazing how life just repeats itself? I handed out tambourines, finger cymbals, and shakers to his class and we sang and sang. I watched Justin’s face a lot as I sang and, even though he was shy just like I was, I think, just maybe, I know how he felt and what he may have been thinking. I realized when it was all over and as I was leaving that I had created a memory just like the one my Dad created for me…I hope my Son always remembers this day…

 

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0 #9 SHERRY ZEIGLER 2010-06-14 13:49 Thanks for sharing this with us… what a wonderful memory. Quote
 
 
0 #8 Chrys 2010-06-08 05:19 I believe that you can remember so far back. I can remember that far back too, and people are surprised how well I remember dates. I associate them with certain things that are going on in my life and hold on to them with every detail that I form into memories. I think you are an awesome dad, and wish the father of my children wasn't the nightmare he has always been… Quote
 
 
0 #7 LINDA SNEDEKER 2010-05-11 16:56 Bryan, my son also played in his son's school last year for career day. similar story. Thanks for sharing your life with us Quote
 
 
0 #6 redcolt 2010-05-11 11:29 I'm sure Justin is as proud of you as you were of your dad that day. Quote
 
 
0 #5 CHRISTINE GABRIEL 2010-05-11 10:47 Thanks for sharing your memories with us Bryan. It is such a sweet memory!! Quote
 
 
0 #4 SARA IRVIN 2010-05-11 08:26 What an awesome experience for you Bryan! As I was reading it, I fought back my own tears. Thanks so much for sharing this with your fans, this is why we love you! :) Quote
 
 
0 #3 ARENA CHENEY 2010-05-11 07:42 Aw, you just made me tear up! That's too sweet. When you're able to do something for your child that gives them an everlasting memory, doesn't it just make you realize how much God has blessed you. That's a memory that no amount of money can every buy. Too sweet! Quote
 
 
0 #2 Kasie 2010-05-11 06:29 What a wonderful story, Bryan! Quote
 
 
0 #1 ANNETTE 2010-05-10 21:31 What great memories! Thanks for sharing the story with us. Quote
 

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